Month: March 2014

Are You Really Living Or Just Existing In Life? ~~ “Take Risks Have No Fear”

Daily I notice how many people are unhappy, simply walking around like zombies in the rat race we call life. I know first hand how some people only show you what they want you to see. Waking up putting on a happy face when in fact, they are miserable underneath. Lets be real … no one wants to be unhappy and simply exist. Everyone has dreams and goals and something they are passionate about. How to achieve happiness all begins within ones self. Many tend to blame their continued unhappiness on their past. This is a cop out! Overcoming fear and doubt is a daily honed practice and does not come easy. Determination along with a no fear attitude will get you out of the box of simply existing. That is, confidence in ones self. Don’t just exist …. take action and live. You only have one life so make it the best one you can by being happy no matter what your past or current situation may be. In tonight’s show Scott will share how he daily achieves overcoming fear and taking risks to achieve success in both his personal and business lives.

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Divorce and Children ~~ “Scars Of A Child”

For children, divorce can be very painful, sad, and confusing. At any age, kids may feel uncertain and angry at the prospect of mom and dad splitting up. Thus, acting out in bad and rebellious behaviors or becoming depressed and introverted. As a parent, we can make the process and its effects less painful for our children. Helping them cope with divorce means providing stability in your home and attending to your children’s needs with a reassuring, positive attitude. It won’t be a seamless process, and thus without problems.

As parents, it’s normal to feel uncertain about how to give our children the right support through a divorce or separation. It may be uncharted territory, but we can successfully navigate this painful time and thus, help our children emerge from it feeling loved, confident, and strong. If not, they will go on to suffer the consequences of our mistakes.Suffering life long scars.

There are many ways we can help your children adjust to separation or divorce. Your patience, reassurance, and listening ear can minimize tension as children learn to cope with new circumstances. By providing routines kids can rely on, you remind children they can count on you for stability, structure, and care. And if you can maintain a working relationship with your ex, you can help kids avoid the stress that comes with watching parents in conflict. Such a transitional time can’t be without some measure of hardship, but you can powerfully reduce your children’s pain by making their well-being your top priority.

When it comes to telling your kids about your divorce, many parents freeze up. Make the conversation a little easier on both yourself and your children by preparing significantly before you sit down to talk. If you can anticipate tough questions, deal with your own anxieties ahead of time, and plan carefully what you’ll be telling them, you will be better equipped to help your children handle the news.

It’s vital to be honest with your kids, but without being critical of your spouse. This can be especially difficult when there have been hurtful events, such as infidelity, but with a little diplomacy, you can avoid playing the blame game or using your children as pawns against the other parent.

In this show Scott goes into great depth and detail explaining his parents divorce and the serious scarred childhood he suffered therefrom. As well as, discussing his own difficult marriage and divorce and the serious consequences of that on his children.

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Some content of the written portion of this blog was obtained from http://www.helpguide.org/mental/children_divorce.htm

What Defines Success In Life And Love ~~ “What Do You Value”

The definitions of success are many, varying from person to person. The greatest definition I believe is that at the end of every day having peace within ones soul is success. This peace encompasses ones professional and personal lives. Getting knocked down and getting back up time and time again teaches us success. However, achieving personal success does not have to be so difficult all the time. Success is not an impossible dream. You can become successful in life if you choose to. But first you need to know what success means to you. Not some general definition of success. You need to see what you and your life would look like when you are successful. Developing a strong vision of what you will look like when you are truly successful will help you become just that … successful. Seeing is believing, as is, falling and rising.

You really can take control of your life and succeed. I know this first hand. Unfortunately life does not come with a manual. Most people struggle through life and wonder why they never get anywhere. In sharing my failures and successes with you and thus how I have come to see and and achieve success I believe you to can be successful in all that you do. Success is not easy and is a daily practice, otherwise more people would be successful. Your life is yours to command.

Some of the content in my show may make you feel uncomfortable, but not as uncomfortable as failure. To achieve success … you will have to change. If you are not successful then you are doing something wrong. One of the hardest things for us humans to do is admit when we are wrong, especially to ourselves. So if you are watching one of my shows and it seems like I am pointing a finger at you then suck it up and keep watching.

I have made all of the mistakes that I discuss. Mistakes can be used to put yourself down (a bigger mistake) or it can be a lesson learned. Have the courage to be really honest with yourself. Success is right, failure is wrong. Taking something bad and turning it into good is the key. So ask yourself are you ready to become successful, and thus what do you …. Value?

“Try not to become a man of success but rather a man of value” – Albert Einstein

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Where Blame and Guilt Have Been Left Untended, Regret Grows ~~ “Looking Back”

The fact is that we all make hundreds of important decisions every day, to waste time dwelling about a single one is simply crazy. Certainly, the one decision you dwell over seems more important than any other but that’s just the way your life and mind have chosen to frame it, that decision is no more important than your decision to study a particular career, or move to that city or leave that job or end that relationship. Time spent considering ‘what if’ is time wasted, better it were spent on ‘what now?’ or ‘where next?. If you truly can not defeat your guilt you will wallow in it, leading to regret.

Regret is cancer, the unrighteous manifestation of masochism. Where blame and guilt have been left untended, regret grows. Regret is the least positive and least constructive force in the world. Regret alters the way you think, feel and interact. Regret can become your master when you should be its’. Regret is literally your past consuming your past and potentially your future, I can imagine nothing scarier than the little time I am given being eroded by a past mistake or mistakes.

If you truly feel regret, address it, remember that is was born of guilt or blame and eradicate them from your life. If you truly value your future, you have to daily face your regrets rather than letting them slowly corrode you until you no longer have the strength to fight them.

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The Will To Live / Survive Your Inner Voice ~~ “Sliding Off A Cliff”

“Scott Binsack” shares two very traumatizing events from his life to describe the will to live and survive. We All have an inner voice to listen to.

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